Get Everything You Want in Your Life Just by Asking For It By Shane Stanford

This method is not a new invention. The core of the idea of how to get everything you want in your life has been around for thousands of years. We have been looking at much of the evidence and the examples the wrong way in all that time. There is a simple technique we can use without any need for blind faith or a `new age’ reliance on spiritual entities etc. When the techniques are perfected, The 3 simple steps are an effortless, practical and personal method to speedily attract what you desire in your life.

Much of the truth is cloaked in superfluous information, theories and very distracting explanations. It appears to be about the making of a very large profit for a very large industry that is becoming repetitious with its same concepts in different packages, depending on the flavour at the time. You have to scrape away all the fluff, mumbo jumbo and the filler information in all those books and Internet packages. It is time that the way to getting everything you want in your life was easy to understand and simple to remember.

This method is within your power because it is actually with you all the time, used every day but it needs fine tuning. It is not subject to someone or something else outside of you. You decide, you want it and you are the one glad for what you receive. There is an every day common faculty that we all possess and yet the tool to be used is rarely mentioned in self help literature.

The voice is one of the most powerful tools we own and it can be used to get everything you want. To be this simple, surely it cannot be right? This idea is so simple and totally in opposition to what the mainstream is perpetuating, the belief that a very complicated or sophisticated system of techniques and knowledge are needed.

This simplicity can be profound in its implications for your life on a number of levels when fully comprehended. Most of the human race has heard of someone that taught us how to do it 2000 years ago and we have been failing to comprehend his message. His message was to show us how to do the thing that he was doing, except that he was pretty damn good at it. We may never reach the level of ability that he had but we can still use the same method.

When you get it… when you really do get it, when you can use it properly and with a conscious awareness of what you are doing, you will change the way that you have gone about getting what you want in your life. You will probably also suddenly realise that you may never need to refer to another ‘give me health, wealth, happiness, success etc’ self-help book again as your bible to achieving a happy life.

When you understand how to use your voice and words correctly to achieve what you want, you begin to realise that the truth is simplicity. The best part of this method is that we do not have to do anything to make it work…something else does. Call it what you will… universe, god, energy, universal subconscious. The name is not important.

There are only 3 simple steps needed to do this because that is all you need to know, something else does the rest of the work for you. With practice you can learn how this method will begin to make things happen quickly - usually within about 2 weeks and very often much sooner depending on how well you master it.

In fact, when you have perfected this method, you will eventually only need to focus on one particular step as the other two will have become automatic. How simple is that?

I have been asked how in the world my own voice can be the only tool needed to make my life change to the way I want it to be. Surely it can not be so simple? Consider the fact that as a species we have been able to create so much more for ourselves in recent history because we have language… we have concept comprehension and it is conveyed through spoken words long before we had writing.

If you feel hurt or emotional because of what some else has spoken aloud it is because they are using words… how much power over your thinking can a politician or someone in authority have when they use the spoken word? Words effect us and they effect our lives. Some people change their life based on one sentence spoken by another person

More importantly, a clue to this simple method is found in the fact that when your name is spoken out loud, that person has your immediate attention.

Sometimes, too much information is just too much information to be able to do something simply. After you have comprehended this formula on an intellectual level… practice, practice, practice makes perfect. We just have to work on our own state of mind before-hand and not be disheartened by slow progress, begin with confidence, not worry if it will work or if it will not work and just decide that it will be easy. Not complicated, just simple and easy. That is because it is.

If I can do it - so can you. Others are learning how to just use their own voice to ask for what they want. However a word of warning about this method is that it can change your life quite dramatically, depending on what you ask.

To learn more see the resource box.

http://3steps.site90.net/

Shane Stanford

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Reflection - One of Four Powerful Ingredients in the Recipe For Personal Growth By Clive A Wilson

The cycle of human consciousness I promote as a simple formulae for a fulfilling life is as follows:

Connection: taking time out to be alone at one with ourselves and the universe allows us to connect and live our life with presence.

Presence: being fully conscious and grounded in all we do, being there in the moment for everyone we meet.
Right action: resulting from being fully present, at other times we react in reflex and unconscious manner.
Reflection: allowing us to learn from what worked and what didn’t. Looking back we can see very clearly when we acted with presence and whether our time in connection helped.

In this article, I’d like to spend some time considering the last step of the cycle, reflection.

cycles of reflection

Let’s take stock of the times when we have reflected. Our reflection often goes in cycles. It is often unnoticed. The more we are aware of our reflection, the more powerful it becomes.

daily cycles

We naturally reflect on a daily basis, sometimes at the end of the day, maybe sitting by the fire, perhaps as we lie in bed before we drift off to sleep. Sometimes it even happens first thing in the morning, especially if the night before was hectic or even wild. If we are wise, perhaps we take time out at lunchtime to be alone or to share thoughts of the morning with our colleagues and friends.

weekly cycles

Then, there are the weekly cycles. In most faiths there is a weekly opportunity to give thanks and also to confess wrongdoings. But even if we do not belong to a particular denomination, we might still have a special day of the week for reflection and appreciation. Perhaps we simply sit down with our family and friends for a special weekly meal. In my home, Sunday lunch is very special and there is both reflection on the week gone by as well as sharing plans for the one to come.

monthly cycles

Monthly reflection happens too. Perhaps we give ourselves structure by formally making a monthly report or even something as mundane as an expenses return. Maybe as we’re claiming expenses for a journey, we will pause to reflect whether it was indeed a good journey. Or perhaps we plan our diaries on a monthly basis, taking tasks from our list and putting them into real time slots.

annual or seasonal cycles

Then of course there are the annual or seasonal cycles. I find that during summer holidays I often find a quiet spot in an inspiring place and just reflect on my life in general. What’s working and what isn’t? Similarly in the winter at the end of one year and in anticipation of the one to come. Was that a good year? What will I build on? What will I do more of? What must I stop doing?

opportunistic times

And then there are other more ad-hoc or fluid times such as on journeys. Over the years, I have probably reflected more on trains and in airport lounges than anywhere else.

big reflections

Finally there are what I call the “big reflections”. Just before passing my job as MD at Primeast to my friend and colleague, Russell, I spent a few days in the mountains at Chiang Mai in Thailand. I meditated, which of course is more about connection than reflection. But I also reflected on a phase of my life that was ending. What had worked that I could celebrate? What could I have done differently? Was I even doing the right thing by moving on?

helping each other to reflect

We can help each other reflect by sincerely asking things like, “How’s your day been?” Or, if we haven’t seen someone for a while, perhaps we ask about their year or their summer and so on. Sometimes our questions are more context based, asking about the person’s job or family.
When we engage with people in this way, the manner of our engagement is really important. Usually when we ask how someone’s day has been, we do so simply as a matter of courtesy. Are we aware that the same question asked in sincerity and with a follow-up question or comment can really help them to take stock and perhaps celebrate something they’ve achieved? Try it. Just on your own, rehearse a simple question like, “How’s the job going?” Feel the difference between the throw-away comment and the sincere expression if interest.

providing structure

If we’re in a position to do so, we can provide structure for ourselves and for those around us for more reflection time. I’ve done a bit of this, such as encouraging shared meals at work and at home. I’m even a fan of monthly reporting at work because it keeps us focussed and doing the right things. For me, I consciously make the most of journeys as described above.

doing more

But even writing this article has grown my awareness. I hope it’s done the same for you. What more can we do to consciously create opportunities for ourselves and others?

Here are the thoughts that are emerging for me:

I will enjoy even more the opportunities I can provide for family, friends and colleagues to eat and share reflective time together
I will encourage reflection through my work on the Sacred Space project (see below)
I will take time to be alone in the countryside and in meditation
When I reflect I will capture the ideas that emerge and act on them
I will recognise reflective time for what it is and appreciate it a whole lot more

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Overcome Your Blocks to More Success By Judith K Sherven

When you think of people who are living a fabulous life who comes to mind? Bill Gates? Meryl Streep? Some prince, princess, or high dignitary? Bill Gates is the richest man in the world and he is deeply involved in helping people around the world. That’s not only fabulous, that’s almost fabled.

But if you knew someone who was going about their life without fame, wealth, and public adulation, would you say that that person is living a fabulous life? For most people the answer would be “No.”

And that makes the lives of 99%-plus of the people alive at any time unfabulous. Are fame, wealth, and public adulation the only criteria for a fabulous life?

We think not.

What about:

** Being true to your deepest desire.
** Standing apart from the crowd. .
** Putting yourself on the line, which means you take big risks.
** Speaking your truth.

Anyone who can live according to those standards is truly living a fabulous life.

But we all know that, no matter our intentions, most people (including those who are successful) are confronted, almost daily, with obstacles to their own fulfillment.

Yes, there are external obstacles. But the obstacles that really matter, that are actually far more powerful, are the unconscious blocks and resistances that dictate what you can and cannot do and who you can be - no matter what you tell yourself consciously.

Those unconscious limits take many forms and dictate what you have internal permission to pursue and what is forbidden to you.

But there is one limit-maker that applies to everyone, no matter their status in the world, which can seriously prevent you from living your fabulous life. And that is your willingness and capacity, or not, to advance beyond your station..

By “station” we mean the extent to which you can envision yourself out in the world. Because when that vision is limited, then to that extent you impose your own restrictions on how far you can go toward self-discovery, self-acknowledgment, self-expression, and self-satisfaction.
You are not divine but human. You are not infinite nor eternal. So there will always be some measure of limitation to which you can envision yourself out in the world.

And, right now, what’s the extent to which your vision propels you forward toward a larger life? And, how is your vision currently limiting the way you are presently living?

To live a fabulous life is to step out beyond the extent to which you can envision yourself at any moment. Because when you do, you are in a moment of discovery, of daring, of hearty imagination as you realize and bring to life the rich gifts that exist within you.

No, you don’t have to be fabled to be fabulous. But you do have to be willing to step out. And step out again, and again. When you do, a truly fabulous life awaits you.

To help you overcome the unconscious blocks that have been holding you back, take advantage of these 7 tipshttp://www.fearofbeingfabulous.com

Judith Sherven (along with her husband) is a best-selling author of 5 book, clinical psychologist, and the creator of “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous” and related programs.

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How to Create a Success Team For Your Life By Laura C. Ege

I’ve heard it said that we are the composite of the five people we spend the most time with. There is probably some truth in that idea. The people in our inner circle have tremendous influence in our lives, whether we like it that way or not.

How many times have you excitedly shared an idea or dream or activity with someone only to be laughed at, ignored, trivialized, or told all the reasons it wasn’t going to work? Maybe this doesn’t bother you, but if you’re like most of us, this kind of negativity wears you down. Before you know it, the idea or dream slips away, the life in it painfully snuffed out. Your life floats away on the whims of the people in your life, keeping you stuck in the status quo or trapped in circumstances.

Trust me, embarking on a life adventure is tough enough without being surrounded by people who drag you down. You need people who see the best in you and believe the best of you always. You need people who can hold the vision for you when you’re losing your way in the midst of life’s frustrations. You need people who bring out the best in you and encourage you always to reach just a little higher and farther with your dreams.

The good news is this can be an intentional strategy for success in your life. You can handpick your inner team and purposefully design an alliance with each of these people that will radically support you in following your dreams.

Here are some things to consider as you begin to look at creating a success team for your life:
Purpose: What do you need from your success team? Are they advisors, coaches, cheerleaders, or partners in your adventure? Do they help you refine your vision and create an action plan? Do they keep you on track with your plan? Do they bring unique skills to the table that fit well as actual partners in your mission?

Qualities: What traits do you want the people on your team to possess? Do they have certain personality traits? Are they men? Women? Both? Do they bring specific experience, education, or skill sets?

Structure: Do you want to meet together as a team or with each person individually? How often will you meet? By phone or in-person or online? Will you meet for a set length of time (like six months) or is it open-ended?

Now you may be thinking, “oh, I could never ask anyone to do something like this!” Maybe it seems selfish or like an imposition. Newsflash…people (especially people who love and believe in you) really do want to help! Think of someone you really care about. Don’t you want to see them reach their dreams, and wouldn’t it be an honor if they asked you to help them get there? Give these people in your life the same chance.

Identify those people who will help you get where you want to go…whether as advisors, partners, or cheerleaders in the journey. Clarify how you would like to be supported by each person. You might also want to consider how you can give back to these people. And then design an alliance with each one that addresses what you both need from the relationship. Don’t be afraid to redesign the alliance as you go too if something isn’t fitting quite right for either of you.

Once you have your success team in place, cherish these people, respect them, lean into them, and grow with them. Your success could well depend on it!

Life coach Laura Ege helps women dust off their “forgotten dreams” and turn them into successful next life adventures filled with passion, purpose, inspiration, and impact in the world. To find out if you’re ready for your next life adventure, visit http://www.NextLifeAdventure.com and take the free assessment.

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There are many reasons England is at the top of the list for U.S. study abroad students. More Americans study in England than any other country in the world. For one reason, they speak English! It’s such an easy transition to make when you take living and communicating in a foreign language out of the stress of going abroad. Also, we, as Americans, are intimately familiar with the history and culture of the country. Who hasn’t had to read Shakespeare, Chaucer, or Dickens in High School? And we all know about the historical sites; Stonehenge, London Tower, Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, Big Ben, et cetera. I’m sure, since most of us are descended from someone in the United Kingdom, that must have a part to play in choosing England as the top destination for studying. If you are interested in genealogy, you can even take some time on the weekends to research your family background. My brother visited Scotland and eventually tracked down some of our family history from that area.

I studied at the London School of Economics during a summer Graduate school session. I had a great experience. The visiting lecturers were Parliament members and successful businessmen. Our group tours included the Lloyds of London, the Land Rover plant, and seeing the Kingdom’s crown jewels in an underground vault at the Tower of London. Also, my dorm room had a pub in the basement; you can’t beat that!

There are programs for everyone; the casual traveler that wishes to learn more about a specific subject, summer sessions, college credit sessions, high school programs, and, as I previously mentioned, Graduate programs. The three main cities you should look into are; London, Oxford, and Brighton. London obviously will have the most programs available because it is such a large city. The great benefits of studying here are the multitude of things to see and do like shopping, nightlife, and visiting the historical sites. Oxford is a smaller academic town and has a lot of University students milling around. The benefits of studying here are that you will easily meet other students from the United Kingdom. Brighton is a small sea-side resort area about an hour from London. The benefits of studying here are that the city holds two Universities, so there are a lot of students, it is a good jumping-off point to visit France just across the channel, and, if you’re lucky to study there in the spring or summer, you can attend a three week city-wide celebration in May, the Brighton Festival.

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