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Jan 06 2009

The Genius Project - The Findings By Timothy A McGinty

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What He Didn’t Find

Before we talk about what my good friend Mr. Jay Niblick did find in the Genius Project, let’s look at what he did not find because it’s actually quite important as well.

After crunching all of that data, and conducting all of those interviews, what he did not find was a single attribute, or natural talent, that showed up as being more responsible for success than any other, at least not on a universal scale. It turns out that being better at seeing the big-picture (the natural talent known as Conceptual Thinking) is not more likely to make everyone successful than being better at seeing the small picture (the natural talent for Attention to Detail). Neither does being better at understanding others (Empathy) have any greater impact on success across the board than does being great at doing what you are told to do (Following Directions).

Sure, in some roles a specific set of attributes may be more critical to success than others. We see this all the time in the job benchmarking work we do with our corporate clients. For example, possessing the natural talents for understanding and persuading others is crucial in most sales roles, but when you look at non-sales roles those talents may have little impact on success. Yes, some natural talents may indeed be vital in certain roles, perhaps even lots of roles - but not all roles.

While finding out which talents play an important part in any single role is beneficial, that’s not what the Genius Project was designed to do. The Genius Project wasn’t meant to understand what talents might make someone successful in any single role. The question he wanted to answer was, “could he find natural talents that are a common denominator among all successful people, in all roles, industries, markets, levels or locations?” In order to answer this question he was looking for natural talents that showed a high correlation with success in all the roles andall the successful people we studied. And guess what…he didn’t find any.

That’s right. He failed to find any single natural talent that was the key differentiator between success and failure in all cases. This is great news, however, because if this was the case, and he did find talents that must be present in order to succeed, and you happened to not possess such talents, you would pretty much be out of luck. If he had found certain talents as mandatory for all success then only people with those certain talents would be able to achieve the 5th level of performance and become geniuses at what they do. But thankfully that’s not what he found.

What He Did Find

When I say that he didn’t find any natural talents, however, that doesn’t mean he didn’t find anything at all that correlated with the most successful people, just no natural talents. What he did find in the Genius Project were two acquired talents, and these two acquired talents were present in all of the successful people, and quite absent in those who suffered from The Problem, individuals who struggle with feelings of frustration, lack of fulfillment and dissatisfaction with their personal performance and success.

These two acquired talents are called self-awareness and authenticity. We’ll get into the differences between natural and acquired talents in my next article, but suffice it to say that natural talents come from the way you think and make decisions and acquired talents are the knowledge, experience and skill that you develop throughout your life. If natural talents are engrained in you early on in life, acquired talents are added later.

Acquired talents are just that - acquired. They are those things that you do very well because you learned to do them very well. You weren’t born with these talents. You acquired them through gaining knowledge and experience. Unlike the natural talents we studied, the two acquired talents we found to be so common among the most successful people can be developed through conscious effort. These talents can be learned, and in so doing, you can become much more successful.

As I said, all of this is great news because it simply means that regardless of the natural talents you do possess you can take whatever those fixed talents are and become more successful with them. This means that the playing field is level. Genius performance isn’t reserved for just those with IQ’s above 140. It isn’t just for those who were lucky enough to be born with certain talents. Everyone possesses his or her own unique set of talents, so anyone can become a genius at something. It just requires that you develop the acquired talents we discovered in his study, and I’ll show you how to do just that in my future articles.

Let’s look at those two acquired talents now, and don’t worry if the following brief definition seems a little shy because you will become a whole lot more familiar with these two acquired talents as you progress through this and my future articles.

Acquired talent #1. Self-Awareness

Self-Awareness looks at how aware people are of their own natural talents and non-talents. For example, does John know he has a great natural talent for strategic thinking that makes him a genius for seeing the big-picture and making accurate long range plans? How aware is Mary that her greatest natural talent is for empathizing and understanding others? Self-awareness also looks at how well a person understands their non-talents, so while John knows he has a natural talent for strategic thinking, is he also aware of his lack of natural talent for paying attention to details, or being empathetic.

Being self-aware is being aware of your own true potential and this is a beautiful thing. In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s, The Great Gatsby, Jay Gatsby is described as having, “something gorgeous about him, some heightened sensitivity to the promises of life.” When a person has high levels of self-awareness, they too seem to hold a heightened sensitivity to all the promise they contain. They know very well what they are and are not good at, and what potential lies within them. When a person has low self-awareness, on the other hand, they do not have a clear sense of their natural abilities. They do not possess a significant level of sensitivity to their own true potential or promise.

If self-awareness is knowledge and understanding for your natural talents and promise, than in order to realize that promise you must possess the second acquired talent we discovered, which deals with the way you apply those talents. We call this second acquired talent Authenticity.

Acquired talent #2. Authenticity

Authenticity, at its simplest level, is “being true to you.” Knowing your strengths and weaknesses (self-awareness) is only half the picture. Properly applying that knowledge to your life is the other half. Setting goals that capitalize on your natural talents is being authentic. Finding a job that depends primarily on your natural talents is being authentic. Working from your strengths is being authentic.

The opposite of being authentic is being inauthentic. When you are aware of your natural talents and non-talents, but fail to incorporate this knowledge into what you do and how you attempt to achieve success, you are being inauthentic. When you allow yourself to fill a role that requires you to excel in your non-talents, you are being inauthentic.

So, of all the people he studied and all the various aspects of those people we looked at, the only two things that showed up as being really different between the most successful and the rest were their level of understanding for the natural talents and their ability to act on this awareness, to incorporate it into what they do and how they do it. The message in this study then becomes, the more completely you know your own natural talents and non-talents (i.e., are self-aware), and the more honest you are about this awareness, and the more you use it to determine what you do and how you do it (i.e., are authentic), the greater your satisfaction and performance will be.

Figure 1 below demonstrates the simplicity of this concept.

Level of Self-Awareness  +  Level of Authenticity  =  Level of Performance

Philosopher G.E. Moore puts it as simply as anyone could. He said, “Everything is what is it, and not another thing.” In other words, we are what we are, and not what we are not. We are our natural talents and our non-talents, and the more aware of these we are, and the truer we are to this fact, the better we perform. Trying to be something we are not is fruitless. If your natural talent is not for strategic thinking than the more your success depends on this ability, the more you are likely to suffer from The Problem.

~ Only when we are what we are, and our roles and objectives are true to that - only then can we reach the 5th level of performance ~

Mr. Timothy A. McGinty is the published co-author of the highly regarded Wake Up… Live the Life You Love® series. This series is a collaborative effort with such inspirational leaders as Tony Robbins, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Brian Tracey, Steven E, and Lee Beard.

Mr. McGinty is also the author of “Your Blissful Life”, a book which takes the reader by the hand and walks them through a process for defining their “Blissful Life” and the action plan for achieving it.

Imagine Yourself… is an organization focused on enabling clients “breakthrough” in achieving their success. Mr. McGinty has helped many organizations and individuals discover their passion, define the life balance they seek, develop strategies for achieving that balance, and held them accountable for reaching their goals. His clients have been so successful that Mr. McGinty is known as “The Breakthrough Guy”

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Jan 06 2009

Getting to Success One Failure at a Time By Paige Arnof-Fenn

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Don’t let a failed startup kill your entrepreneurial dreams. Get back in the saddle again with these encouraging words of wisdom.

Is it necessary to fail in order to succeed? We’ve all heard the statistics–one out of every “X” restaurants/new businesses/retailers fail. The numbers are staggering. What happens when your startup tanks? Do you quit? Run away? Hide? No! You’re an entrepreneur, so you get back in the saddle and you try again with the additional wisdom and insight you gained from the previous experience. Easier said than done, I know–but that’s what makes people like Thomas Edison entrepreneurs. Edison once said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” What a great attitude!

I’ll admit I’m a positive person who always sees the glass half full; I’ve been that way my whole life. I’ve come to realize through my own experiences as well as my clients’ and colleagues’ that you can’t learn anything important if you aren’t willing to make some mistakes along the way. Teddy Roosevelt said, “The person who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything!”

The road to great success is paved with fantastic failures. The most successful people I know will admit they’ve all hit bumps in the road, suffered major setbacks along the way and learned from each of those experiences–if they were smart. Michael Jordan admits, “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

So now do you believe me? You can’t separate the successes from the failures–it’s all part of the same journey. Optimism can be learned; choose happiness and see how it feels the next time you get down. It may be hard at first but I guarantee you’ll enjoy the journey a lot more trying it this way. By carrying around a lot of bitterness and anger, you’ll never lead a full life. Forgive, forget and move on. This quote from E.B. White should give you the courage to at least try it: “I wake up every morning determined both to change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning the day a little difficult.”

I’ve quoted some pretty impressive people here, all of whom accomplished great things. They did it one step at a time, learning with each interaction, every encounter and conversation. They weren’t born with the answers; they fumbled their way through it just like the rest of us. When they reached a good place, people started quoting them–like Charles F. Kettering who said, “Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement,” or H. Ross Perot who said, “When building a team, I always search first for people who love to win. If I can’t find any of those, I look for people who hate to lose.” That’s the entrepreneurial spirit!

I’m sure there are people out there who’ll claim they’ve never experienced failure. It reminds me of the 80s when Wall Street was the place to be and the answer of choice when asked in interviews what your weaknesses is was to say “kryptonite.” I think if Supermen and women were being interviewed today about when they stumbled, the best response would be to admit you’ve missed the last shot at the buzzer and tell them why next time you’ll make it instead. Show what you learned from the experience, how you’ve reflected on the lessons and what steps you’ve taken to course correct going forward. I think the best people put themselves out there knowing they might not always win but they’ve trained hard and done their homework, prepared and planned for the moment to shine.

So don’t be scared to fail your way to success. Turns out, that’s the way it’s done. My husband cooks and he always jokes about the four stages of roasting pine nuts: not done, not done, not done, burnt. How do you get them perfectly roasted? Practice! Nobody’s born with an Olympic Gold Medal or Academy Award. When you find intrinsic motivation from a sense of joy, purpose and mastery, you’re on the right track. Just keep failing until you succeed!

Paige Arnof-Fenn is Founder & CEO of Mavens & Moguls, a global marketing strategy consulting firm whose clients include early stage startup companies as well as world class brands such as Virgin, Colgate, and The New York Times Company.

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Jan 06 2009

Beliefs of Success By Richard Risher

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Beliefs of Success By Richard Risher

A strong beliefs system could bring you the most wanted success. The success could be interpreted by us as a belief system which can help us to have massive achievements. There is a list of beliefs which may improve your results

Everything happens with a reason
Every successful man will say that there is a purpose in life for every event. Even if it is not a positive event, that event can offer you the experience you need in perspective events. For example, a national football team which has never played in a World Football Championship, even if they will just participate and will have the poorest results ever seen in the final everybody will congratulate them for participating. Maybe at the next event they will have enough experience to get better results. This is a general rule and you can ues it as examples in your daily job. A positive event will encourage you to continue in this way even if it is your first success.

There is no failure in everything we do
As I said before it is all about learning experiences. Instead I say to myself “I failed doing this job”, I would rather say “I learned something new and next time I’ll make a perfect job because of past learning experiences”. All you have to do is to alter your view about failure to something constructive which will bring you the success desired.

Assume responsibility
Most of unsuccessful people make the big mistake of blaming somebody else for every thing that goes wrong. In a poor country everyone is blaming the statesmen and they spend a lot of time watching TV shows with politic subjects. There are a lot of people who blame their boss for their lack of success. It is easier to say that the bosses do not want to promote you or give you a bigger salary, but nobody is thinking if they really deserve that. I have never seen somebody say: “It is ok this year, I did not work as good as I could have and probably that is why I didn’t receive the salary I expected.” Assuming responsibility is a demonstration of maturity in everything we do. Even if you have a job and your doing that responsible or you gave your word to do something.

You don’t need to be perfect in every domains
As you probably know there is no successful man which has a perfect knowledge in every domain they are working. For example if you have a networking business you will need resources from different domains but it is clear that you need some knowledge at different levels. You need to know as much network knowledge as you can but you have to know how can you make a simple website and how to promote it. Also a convenient report between quality and price needs to be managed by you. Having a lot of knowledge form different domains and performing them in a specific one will assure you the success and the best results.

Your biggest results are people
Even if you don’t have a big plan to achieve the success, probably you will need people to help you. The results might appear after a while but you have to satisfy the expectations of the people you are working with in order to have your own expectation and results from them. This is a little strange for you to met someone else expectation before having positive results. If the people you are working as employees or collaborators are happy and satisfied with their job and salary they will work for you better and that will help you to achieve the success as soon as possible. At the end of the month firstly you should pay your employees salary and after that your salary, because the next month they will work for you and maybe they will be satisfied and your business will have an important increase.

Threat work as a play
This belief will help you to keep on the good way even if sometimes you are bored with your work and you are thinking of a change. Changing things will not benefit you every time because you need some time to accommodate again and maybe you will get bored again. This won’t give you the promotion you expect. It’s better to be efficient in an area. Try to threat your work as play and find something new and interesting in everything you do at your job. Also remember that you have make some commitments if you want the success. The most successful people are the most committed. So don’t play with commitments as you are playing at your jobs. That’s not professional.

Respect some of these beliefs and you will have better results!

Richard Risher

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Jan 06 2009

Obstacles to Success - Part 1 By Kris Cavanaugh

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Obstacles to Success - Part 1 By Kris Cavanaugh

Everyone has an ideal vision of how they would like their life to be, and typically obstacles always appear which make it more difficult to make those visions a reality. The easy part is expecting obstacles to get in the way of what we truly desire. The real challenge is to investigate the reason behind the obstacle and find ways to overcome it.

Obstacles cause us to lose momentum as we are trying to achieve our visions and goals. They often make us feel stuck. Sadly, the longer we feel stuck, the more likely we are to give up on whatever it is we were striving towards.

The best thing we can do when facing an obstacle is to consider the obstacle a wonderful opportunity to learn something new about ourselves. Yes, you read that correctly - obstacles are a WONDERFUL way to help us improve our personal development skills. I can attest to that personally.

There have been times in my life that I set out to achieve or obtain something that was very important to me. Inevitably, along the way, I encountered obstacles both big and small. Sometimes the process of overcoming those obstacles helped me improve personality traits that needed to be adjusted, and other times the process uncovered new abilities I didn’t even know existed. For me, it’s always a neat experience to look back and see how I’ve changed for the better during a challenging time. My attitude about obstacles is my biggest asset: I don’t usually like them, but I always respect their ability to make me a better person over time.

One of the reasons the coaching industry has been so successful over the last decade is because people are genuinely tired of being stuck in whatever circumstance they are in. When that “stuck” feeling gets too overwhelming to ignore, people often invest in a coaching program to help them move forward. I always tell my clients before they start their coaching program that the change process will often be difficult. Below is a section of my contract that I ask my clients to read and sign, just to make sure they are aware of what it will take to successfully achieve the life they want. Note the bold area in the second paragraph which specifically addresses the obstacles they will encounter:

The bigger your dreams, the more obstacles you will inevitably face. How you handle them is the often the key factor towards your road to success. So the next time you are facing an obstacle, take a deep breath and focus on what you can learn instead of the “pain” you are currently feeling.

In Part 2 of this series, we will discuss the two kinds of obstacles people often face: internal and external. Until then, feel free to email me back with any comments you have or suggestions for future email series.

Identifying & Tackling Obstacles Exercise

Think about a current obstacle you are facing: a circumstance you are tolerating, a difficult conflict you are struggling with, or a change you don’t want to make, but know you need to.

• What is stopping you?
• What makes this hard to get done?
• What one resource or tool would make all the difference if you had it?
• What’s the worse-case scenario if you did decide to tackle this issue once and for all?

Spend time thinking about the answers to those questions, and let me know if I can help you in any way.

Have a wonderful day, and remember to keep your eyes open for all the exciting possibilities within and around you!

2008 Transformation Journeys Inc.

Kris Cavanaugh is a Life Coach who writes a monthly newsletter called Creating Endless Possibilities which contains great resources to help you create the life you want right now. As a bonus for subscribing to her newsletter, you will receive a 12-week email series called Living Your Life “On Purpose.”. Kris also offers a complimentary “Design Your Life” coaching session for anyone interested in investigating a coaching program. To sign up for her newsletter or register for the complimentary session, go tohttp://www.transformationjourneys.com.

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Jan 06 2009

Wise Words From Yoda! By Merna Throne

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Wise Words From Yoda! By Merna Throne

As I was kicking around topics this week, I kept going back to a quote I ran across in school.

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
-Yoda

Fear is such venom in our minds and hearts and it leads us to create much more hurt in life. Hurt that we carry around with us daily and it is often ‘unknowingly’ projected on everything or everyone we encounter. Often, we do not visually see this part of us….but, it is festering inside. Fear has many different faces that we wear: Anger, upset, frustration, sadness, judgment, boredom, and many more. However, we do not always see the clear picture of what is really beneath our current feelings. In the end, Yoda is accurate with fear leading to our personal suffering. WE are the ones that suffer from our unresolved fear.

With that said, it is scary to look inside because what if we don’t like what we see? What if we are not who we hoped we are? Do not worry, you were born with a very caring, loving soul and it is still in there. We just have some dusting to do of the years of life you have lived. Life is not perfect and we all have had moments in life that has hurt and disappointed us. These are the ‘unresolved’ items we have in the way of feeling peaceful again. Therefore, let us do some housework and start dusting everything!

Do you want to feel less annoyance, frustration, and confusion? If so, the answer lies right in front of you or should I say inside of you! It takes small stepping-stones to begin finding more peace. One-step at a time. If you take a huge leap and go from one extreme to the other it really is not healing, it is another mask. If you put on a ‘fake’ smile and do not look inside and care for yourself this is just another mask and one that will not last long.

I have been there many years ago before I realized soul searching is the key to happiness. You are not alone here at all! I have worked with countless people over the years that desire more peace in their life and find it! It takes some hard work to get there, but it is so worth it.

Please remember, it is much more exhausting to live suffering each day with unresolved hurt and fear than it is to work through it. I know this from personal experience and the people I have coached.

Therefore, your choices are starting today or continue waiting for life to magically change. Hmmm…I must add that the journey may be a little rough from time to time and it can be grand at others…..

It is so worth it!

How are you going to change your path of life in 2009?

Copyright 2008 Merna D. Throne

Merna D. Throne is an Author, Motivational teacher, Life coach, Business consultant, Director of Visions - Chapter III, and a student pursuing her degree in psychology.http://www.pocketofpearls.com/selfhelpgroup.html Much more information on tools - visit our website!

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